Now bring Your Dramatic Poles into specific focus by declaring what they lead you to seek from particular other PCs. 

The sooner you define a want, the more important it is to you. The first and second PCs you name as your withholders of emotional reward are your fraught relationships. List these first in the “People In My Life” section of your character sheet. Also, mark your fraught relationships by circling or highlighting them on your relationship map. If you find it a useful memory aid, include a notation describing the emotional reward you seek.